Does the birth of your child stand out as one of the best experiences of your life? There is no stronger connection than that between a parent and child. The advice below will help you to build your relationship, ensuring that the connection between you and your child not only remains strong, it flourishes!
If you are expecting, don’t blow two months’ salary on nursery equipment. It is possible to buy high quality cribs, changing tables, blankets and other baby paraphernalia for much less money at department stores like Walmart. Friends and family members who are no longer using their baby furnishings may allow you to use them.
Parents with teenagers trying to decide on what college to attend, should not pressure them to choose the college parents want them to go to. The teenage strategy of doing the opposite of what is expected of them is a common response to feeling powerless and controlled.
Children of all ages who walk to school should be wearing retro-reflective materials on either their clothing or backpack. You can buy Velcro strips of this material that you can attach and detach from their clothing or accessories. Your child will be visible to drivers in the darker early morning and late afternoon hours.
Every child has his or her own unique character. Specific actions you take may yield results in one child, but get an opposite response from another child. This applies to rewards as well as to punishments. However, you should remember what worked on other children and try that first, before moving on to new methods if necessary.
Making it clear that you expect your children to use positive words and communication, while leading by example helps your children to deal with the inevitable sibling issues. For instance, instead of saying “no hitting” as a rule, you can reposition it as “always be gentle when touching”.
Sometimes you will neglect yourself when caring for your children, but you need to be a priority sometimes as well. Despite what crazy events occur throughout the day, always take some time alone to be by yourself and relax, step away from the world and its worries. If you are feeling a little better, it will make your children much happier.
Maintain variety in your toddler’s toys. Shift to toys that haven’t been played with in a while to prevent boredom, and use all the toys to his or her full potential. Usually a toddler will quit paying attention to a toy, unless it’s one of their favorites. Rotating your toddlers toys, helps to keep them interested, without having to buy new toys all the time.
Don’t forget your child’s favorite toy, blanket, or stuffed animal when traveling. A vacation can be a major disruption to the routine of a child, so if you work on keeping their routines in place and having something comforting for them, it can make it a lot easier. If your child has a treasured toy, stuffed animal or blanket to comfort him, he can more easily make the transition to an unfamiliar location.
To be a successful parent you should be as close as you can with your child. Having an open line of communication now will make it much easier to parent your child after they become a teenager. Follow the advice you have read to strengthen your relationship with your child, and be the parent that your child deserves.